Category Archives: Men

Don’t Be Boastful When Mad

My husband screamed at me today. Two days ago, he asked me to help him to transfer money overseas. My supplier gives me better rates than his, so he asked for my assistance, which I timely gave. Today, his supplier … Continue reading

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All Failed Relationships Lead You to the Right One

The first guy I dated worked as a waiter, became a restaurant cook and ended up to be a holistic masseuse in Japan. He was a high school graduate who felt he was inferior against college graduates because they have a degree and … Continue reading

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Top 5 Reasons Why Couples Divorce Very Quickly

It is every girl’s dream to be married. From the time they were young, they dream of wearing the perfect dress, walking down the aisle to a song they’ve picked from high school, looking to the crying eyes of her Prince Charming. … Continue reading

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“I’m sick.”

“I’m hungry,” my husband groaned last weekend while we were at SMX at the bridal show. “Uhhhhh… we’re still not yet done setting up,” I said. “But I’m hungry,” he moaned like a ravished child. I need something to eat. I was torn. While I don’t … Continue reading

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Edric Mendoza — Many Women’s God’s Best

“Eeeeee! He’s on TV!” my husband shakes me as he sees Edric Mendoza on TV. If you are wondering what is causing my husband’s excitement, here is a photo of Edric Mendoza that I’ve gotten on the Internet: Cute, ey? Bespectacled, … Continue reading

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What would happen if I didn’t marry my husband

I was thinking about what my life would be if I did not marry my husband. If I married my first boyfriend, it would’ve been a loveless marriage.  It was a one-sided relationship which started wrongly — with Michan first … Continue reading

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I’m Not Perfect — Are You?

When I was in Hong Kong, most guys never really bent on bended knee to ask a girl to marry him. It happened, sure, but not like here in the Philippines where a guy dates a girl a few months … Continue reading

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The Night We Got Pulled Over By Cops for Lewd Behavior

Boyfriend and I went to the Top Gear Philippines party last night at Prive in Fort Bonifacio. Everything who’s a who’s who in the car industry was there. After the party, Boyfriend took me home. And of course, after an … Continue reading

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Am I Happy I Went Back?

A few weeks ago, I was visited by some friends from Hong Kong. It was my mentor back when I was working in a British bank, and he brought some of his high-flying friends. They were looking to invest in … Continue reading

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The Pros of Online Dating (And How I Met Someone There)

There were also a lot of cool surprises in the New Year. I met someone in the end of August 2012. After exchanging a gazillion emails, we met and hit it right off. Everyone thought we were moving too fast. … Continue reading

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Holland Tulip Flowers

Holland Tulip Flowers

Got this surprise yesterday…

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I Like the Fact…

I like the fact that he celebrates a balanced woman. The fact that he wants a woman to be intelligent and capable, and to help out with the family business whenever necessary. And not just to be a simple “housewife” … Continue reading

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Have you ever been in a ‘useless’ relationship?

Have you ever been in a useless relationship? You know, the type of relationship where you know there’s a definite expiry date and an ending? The one where you got in just for the hell of it fully knowing that … Continue reading

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Is “Nice” Enough to Make A Relationship?

People always think its better to date a nice guy. At least, he would never really hurt you. He can’t. He’s just too “nice.” Well, I did actually dated a guy because he was nice. Of course, the cute factor … Continue reading

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How to Make A Girl Like YOU

This is so true… Tried and tested… if you like someone: Step 1: Find a way to “connect” with them. In the Philippines, it’s easy enough so long as you have her number. Be non-threatening and start with a simple, … Continue reading

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Back in the Dating Scene?

A month after my breakup… wow, how time flies. It hasn’t been an easy journey but oh, how invigorating the process was. Over the last four weeks, I’ve done a lot of self-reflection, making changes where I saw fit. And … Continue reading

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How I met my ex…

I’ve always believed that talking has helped me deal with my problems. It’s actually if I don’t talk about my issues that they are left to fester and grow. We don’t want that of course. So let me tell you … Continue reading

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Would you break up with your partner because he is cheap?

My friend wants to breakup with her high-profile boyfriend because surprisingly, he is not a generous person. Okay, so that’s me becoming more diplomatic and politically correct. In Bonita’s wording, he is cheap. Yes, cheap. “My friend’s sex buddy treats … Continue reading

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Cold feet – got it?

My best friend just broke up with her boyfriend of four years three weeks ago. Out of the blue, he sent her an SMS saying that “He wanted time to think.” Troubled, she gave him a call and he told … Continue reading

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Women in Business – Can we have it all?

This morning, I awoke early at 6:30 am to be at the American Chamber’s Women in Business awards at the Four Seasons Hotel Hong Kong. The half-day conference started off with a bang with Ms. Angelina Kwan, MD of a regulator/compliance … Continue reading

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“It’s Complicated”

It’s funny – a month after starting MBA, some long-term, long-distances are starting to unravel. Whilst many people came into an MBA in a relationship, for some reason, a handful are now either “on a break,” or reverted to a … Continue reading

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Men Whores

I met a new friend whose story is made up from those seen in soap operas. It’s quite complicated: She was dating a guy in Europe for a few months when she also met someone online in Hong Kong. Hong … Continue reading

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Meet the Fockers – We’re all Focked, aren’t we?

Trader and I will meet the parents this weekend. Boy, is this going to be so much fun! 😀 His mother has grudgingly accepted the invitation though Trader has yet to come back to me on the deets. While my … Continue reading

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Fights: Good or Bad?

DragonStalker rightfully asked whether it’s good that Trader and I had been fighting all the time. Actually, I wouldn’t call these as fights but rather as arguments which I blow out in proportion when reporting them on my blog. 🙂 … Continue reading

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Thinking long term?

Nobody is perfect. I sure am not. However, in almost 8 months of dating Trader, I’ve realized that he’s not perfect either. Despite his constant hirits that he does his best to be the best boyfriend in the world, he … Continue reading

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Biggest Lessons in 2009

Trader asked me what my New Year’s resolutions are. His were to sleep earlier, play less video games and read more books. He’s just started getting addicted to video games and wanted to curb this time-wasting endeavor. “To be better … Continue reading

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Dating unavailable men?

Have you ever been with an unvailable man? Maybe you have but just don’t know it. I’ve come back from a brief weekend stint in Taipei finding out that my friends have a knack of picking men that are somehow unavailable. … Continue reading

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Trips – love/hate him more

Last week, I joined Trader and his friends on a week-long trip out of town. Trader and I had traveled together before but this is the first time we’ve gone out together for this long. People say that couples who … Continue reading

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Opposites attract — but can they sustain?

Trader and I had a semi argument last night on our virtual date. As he was not giving me too much attention, I got pissed off and felt that I should be somewhere else. “Why would I be stuck here … Continue reading

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Happy Birthday to a 29 year-old me!

Last year, my parents told me that I can now officially date. Now turning 29, I’m dating this really nice guy, relocated to a new country and are celebrating by parent-sitting this week. My dad is constantly in my back … Continue reading

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Realization

After coming out from a silly argument with Trader, I rang out one of my few good friends from Hong Kong. We met at a nice pasta place in Admiralty’s Pacific Place and it was so nice checking up with … Continue reading

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FUBU or MOBU?

“How does one get a FUBU?” my innocent boyfriend inquired yesterday as we were cyberdating via Skype, our regular nocturnal activity nowadays given that we’re in a long-distance relationship. He didn’t really want to hear my answer after I’ve told … Continue reading

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Disturbed by the Noise

Before you read this post, I’ll leave you this link. If ever I forget to add this link by the end of the post, you may go back up again and click on it. That’s how I feel about Trader … Continue reading

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My wedding march

Yes, it may seem as if I’m getting a teeny bit lazier, but then again, I just can’t help but rave about this really nice video I saw online. The video clip was entitled “Let yourself feel” from Esteban Diácono … Continue reading

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Giving up = failure?

The thought of giving up haunts us. Ever since we were young, we were thought to believe that to give up is to admit failure. To discontinue something worthwhile that must be finished, otherwise we wouldn’t had started it in … Continue reading

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How do you know if he/she is the One?

Answering the question, “How do you know if he/she is the One?” my mom has her words of wisdom to share: “As you always asked mom – how would I know if the guy is meant for me or not? … Continue reading

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In a relationship with…

I’ve just updated my Facebook Profile to say “In a relationship with Trader” last week. Inevitably, congratulations poured in from those who knew us back in college, to good friends in Hong Kong who were happy to see that the … Continue reading

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Why my boyfriend freaks guys out

My guy friends cannot believe what Trader does for me. They think it’s an abonination the lengths that Trader does to show how much he loves me, and how important I am to him. “I don’t prescribe to long-distance relationships,” … Continue reading

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Oh Your Cheating Heart

Italian Prime Minister Silvio Berlusconi has been caught multiple times with his pants down cheating on his wife. Actually, his vagrant exploits is published all around the Internet. You just cannot help but feel a tad sorry for his soon-to-be-divorced … Continue reading

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When you have that gnawing feeling…

It’s a gnawing feeling. It burns deep inside. You look at his/her eyes, and wonder to yourself, “Is he/she really the One for me? How come I am not sure?” You ask your friend on how he’s so happy with … Continue reading

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Lost Boys

It amazes me that age has limited correlation to maturity. No matter how competent or professional a guy may seem at work, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s in a right place or time to pursue a woman for a stable … Continue reading

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Breaking the Toxic Relationship Pattern

I’ve often wondered why how so many intelligent, competent and beautiful women remain single – while irritating bimbos get all the men? My Taiwanese best friend is an example. She’s smart, sexy and still single. Guys who’d go after her … Continue reading

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Why make things official?

Why make things official?  When my good friend posted photos of her and a Caucasian in semi-sweet positions on her Facebook account, as good as we are nosy, we immediately barraged her with teasing questions like, “Oh my, is that … Continue reading

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The Long, Hard Wait

The hardest thing I think for a woman is to do nothing. Gone are the days when women are asked to stay at home and reproduce. Now, the world has changed and with it, women stand side by side with … Continue reading

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The Plight of your Boyfriend’s Best Girl-Dash-Friend

Yes, I’m The Other Woman. In your imagination, I’m the malicious woman who plots to steal your Significant Other away, which is exactly what I’m desperately trying to do (that’s sarcasm if you still didn’t get it). I’m the woman … Continue reading

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The Plight of the Nice Guy

I feel terribly sorry for The Nice Guy. Really I do. There they are, pining for their women of their dreams as the latter get swept away by wild bad boys who will inevitably break their hearts into teeny-tiny pieces. The … Continue reading

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The one you love, or the one who loves you more?

Spent an emotional weekend with two of my boys and the difference between them couldn’t had been starker. Despite living in the same city as Trader, my ex-boyfriend only got to see me the day before I was supposed to leave. … Continue reading

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The Tale of Two Men

These days, I am enjoying the far too much the attention of two men. For a person who keeps on asking the readers of her blog if a guy’s interested, it’s a bit of a surprise when I can say … Continue reading

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Foodfare

Sorry for the lack of updates. Dad, mom and a handful of my siblings came by to Hong Kong for a weeklong visit, so I’ve been quite busy parent sitting and ensuring that they have a nice time here.  My … Continue reading

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The Art of Successful Pickups

Today I met someone who I knew would be very good in picking up women. He made an impression on me and for all jilted men out there who thinks that picking up a woman is difficult, this is for … Continue reading

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Is he?

When a guy doesn’t SMS or call you back, then surely the signs are clear — he’s not that interested anymore. Disappointing, I know. 😦 However, what’s funny about life is that when God closes a door, he opens up … Continue reading

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Rugby Player vs. Tennis Player

For women, are the men you attract classified as rugby or tennis players? For men, for the sake of simplistic generalization, which one are you? My girlfriends and I discussed this topic over dinner last weekend. “Why is it that … Continue reading

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Who asks who out?

A friend of mine asked me why women are afraid to ask men out. “If you’re interested, why not do it?” After the hustle and bustle of overtime work, I managed to think further to his question. The truth is, … Continue reading

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I miss you.

It’s amazing how you can bring the worst in me, and the best in me. When we first started, I wasn’t really supposed to fall for you. It was nice, and fun and I was attracted to you. But I … Continue reading

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One more time?

“So what are you doing this Friday?” he asked. “Am still deciding whether or not I’ll be going to this party,” I replied. “We’ll see.” “Well, if you’re not going to the party,” he continued. “Maybe I can take you out … Continue reading

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Challenge = good? Nice = bad?

There are three most common industies people in Hong Kong work in: 1) Banking and finance 2) Consultancy, and 3) Law Yesterday, I had this fortunate opportunity to talk to a banker. “I love Taipei. Women in Hong Kong are … Continue reading

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Rising Up to Challenges

A warrior of the light is reliable.  He makes some mistakes, and sometimes considers himself to be more important than he really is.  But he does not lie. When people gather around the fire,  he talks to his male and … Continue reading

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Saying goodbye to 2008 — and hello to 2009!

2008 passed by so fast — where has it gone?  In a way, it seems that 2008 was the transitional year.  It was the year when I deepened my expertise in project and relationship management, in addition to actually making … Continue reading

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Work and Play

Boyfriend has contacted me today after over a week’s haiatus. Smart boy, he contacted me while at the office — when I knew I couldn’t really make a scene. He said that in the alps, he’s been staying at the … Continue reading

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The Slow Disappear

I think I’m too rational for my own good — too logical, even-minded and fair. I had previously mentioned that men like drama. Sure, they get all pissed off and claim that their girl is psycho, but soon enough, you … Continue reading

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Resurfacing

The bus rambles from the background. I hear it from my huge window, covered with a sheer curtain. In her beautiful shoebox, Bonita is lonely. It’s been awhile since I’ve ever felt this — being truly alone. A stranger in … Continue reading

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Dating: A process and not a marriage end-all/be-all

Did you know that I was completely single for three years before starting to date this man? Hence, contrary to my colorful dating exploits, am still such a baby when it comes to relationships and it shows. However, I’m gradually … Continue reading

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Funny…

My boyfriend and I are thinking of meeting up in a random country after two months of not seeing each other. He has a long weekend coming up in a few weeks, and we’ve been racking our brains for the … Continue reading

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What I Need in a Man

I WANT MORE Attention: I need to know you are present, hopefully in body, but especially in spirit. That means getting rid of the evil blackberry once in a while… Courage and tenacity to last: Nothing about the future is … Continue reading

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Being Carrie Bradshaw

 My friend thinks I’m like Carrie Bradshaw. “I’ve missed you so much,” he exclaimed when I had dinner with him last night. “You just say absolutely anything that comes to your mind and you’re so refreshingly open about it.” My … Continue reading

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Cursed?

Beauty and sex appeal can be a curse. Back in the Philippines, there was a popular rap song when I was younger. The chorus rang, “Humanap ka ng panget at ibigin mo ng tunay (Find somebody ugly to love and … Continue reading

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Staying Sane in an LDR

Wow, haven’t I been posting multiple entries about my relationship instead of my usual feel-good, you-go-girl type of posts weeks ago. How fast things have changed, and how this bothers me. “You really like him a lot,” my girlfriend accused. … Continue reading

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Recommends: “Why Men Love Bitches”

I’ve read quite a few I-Need-Help-in-my-Relationship books before, but this one takes the cake. There’s only one chapter that I did not agree in, which was when Sherry instructs women to act like useless females and pretend as if we … Continue reading

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Trepidation

I don’t feel like posting these days. My heart is heavy and my mouth slightly downturned these days. Trepidation. A word that brings dread to one’s heart. It’s like walking out from your building, looking at the dark hazy clouds … Continue reading

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Dear Hon (Part II),

I love you. I do. My love is the type most people dream about. It’s a love that gives me courage to persist even when situations are bleak, when times are tough and when things are uncertain. Mine is the love that lasts for a lifetime. There are days when I’m in love with you but loving you is a constant. It’s always there. Don’t ask me when I started loving you. I do now and choose you to be its receipient. Continue reading

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Settle? Hell no!

“I’d settle for anyone,” my girlfriend the Actress wistfully moaned. “You’re very lucky Bonita but at least you have choices. It’s just that you don’t want your choices but at least you have SOME.” “Yes, but then again, if you … Continue reading

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How do you know if a guy likes you?

Do you know what women usually talk about when we have our “girl talks?” Sure, we talk about the latest gossip and career plans, but basically, we also like to talk about relationships-who we’re dating, who is interested in us … Continue reading

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Dear hon,

It’s hard to be in a long distance relationship with you. It’s tough. Especially for someone as tactile as I am, I’ve come to realize the past few days just how much I crave human contact. When I feel your … Continue reading

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So is this love?

A man whispers sweet nothings to your ear. His voice sounds sure. “I really really like you,” he murmurs. “From the moment I first talked to you, I immediately liked you. I’ve never been so sure in my life.” “I … Continue reading

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Oh no.

I am starting to miss him. Do I miss him because as creatures of habit, missing something or something is natural whenever something is removed (if so, that’s truly bad of him)? Or do I miss him because I’m starting … Continue reading

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Typhoon Today

My door is banging. The wind is blowing. And am stuck at home frowning and vegging. I don’t really feel like studying or doing anything save for sleep. I was inconveniently woken up this morning by our company driver who … Continue reading

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Bored of the other?

“Go to rest now,”  I said as we said our goodbyes today. “We’ll just talk tomorrow.” He had the beginnings of a bad flu and after staying up till the wee hours of the morning talking yesterday, I felt that … Continue reading

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Surprise, surprise…

Just got back from a week-long business trip. Life is funny — at first, you have it all figured out then BAM! Someone pulls the rug underneath your feet and you lose your balance a bit. This week has caught … Continue reading

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Some potential?

Met someone nice this evening at a friend’s house warming party. He’s a doctor who’s in Taiwan on a holiday. Rocker boy in high school, signed a record deal afterwards, but ended up taking up medicine and is currently practicing … Continue reading

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Male Competition

Written on May 24, 2008 from the Raven Archives: Last night, I bumped into a guy friend of mine at Barcode. He is one of my best female friend’s colleague, and an expat here in Taipei. We met around a … Continue reading

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Knowing my Future Husband

I sometimes feel that I am waiting for my better half. Where is he now? What is he doing? Has he thought of me as I have sometimes thought of him? A fortune teller once told me that I’d meet … Continue reading

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The Hardest Thing to Do…?

…Is to just hold your head up high, and LET GO. You asked, you begged and he still doesn’t care enough to say yes? If it’s so hard to even convince him to do something simple for you, then what’s … Continue reading

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Heartbreaker or Ego-Buster?

I bumped into a guy last Saturday at a party. In his drunken state, he was surprisingly honest. “You made me feel like crap,” he said. “When you didn’t show up, you made me feel like shit.”Admitedly, I’ve never stood … Continue reading

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Soft Touch

All I can say is,You’re right……and I was wrong.20 minutes isn’t really adequate enoughto say something or anything about a person.And as someone who took the higher road,You have my deep respect.I sincerely, from the bottom of my heart, apologize. … Continue reading

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With great freedom…

…comes great responsibility. …or a bigger brain. A friend I haven’t seen for over 10 years visited Taiwan for the long Labor Day weekend and we met up for coffee and a chat yesterday. He asked me this question which … Continue reading

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Saddened…

It makes me sad when people have some misconception about me. I was having a great time at a party when a guy who knows I have this blog told me, “I know that you have a blog. Please don’t … Continue reading

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Just for Fun?

The weirdest place I’ve ever met a guy in was at the Alexander Gym. Back when it was still in operation, Alexander Gym was a place I frequented three times a week. Sometimes, I’d go to their pilates classes, while … Continue reading

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Guy 1 / Girl 0

Raven: “Thank you for taking care of me last week. In return, please allow me the pleasure to take you out to dinner.” Guy: “No need to thank me. Dinner would be nice, but not this week. Full schedule. :)” … Continue reading

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Surprise, surprise…!

Yesterday, I did all I can to avoid Barcode, everybody’s perennial hang-out place because I wanted to avoid “him” to which we have yet to call by any name save for M. For one, he has already extended an invitation … Continue reading

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Lemonades?

SimpleGuy jilted me and told me the very last minute that he couldn’t climb with me today. No big deal as have already successfully distanced myself from feeling too happy/disappointed whenever I receive any news from him. I get it… … Continue reading

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The Long Weekend

I’m slightly melancholic after the long weekend. Not because I had no company — I had tons. However, sometimes I wish I can just keep the company of a single person all throughout. Anyway, it was a pretty eventful few … Continue reading

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The Ladder Theory

Flute’s comment reminds me of the Ladder Theory. In his comment, he writes, “Please forget the idea that these guys see you neutral. You may have put them already in the friend zone, but they don’t, I am sure. Personally … Continue reading

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To Care or Not to Care

Honestly, I am slightly disillusioned by how some of my relationships have been faring these days. Relationships which are not limited in the romantic sense, but also spans through friendships and otherwise. I’ve always considered myself as a good friend, … Continue reading

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This and That

Okay, I succuumbed. I’m a sucker for deals and after getting the second letter from Chunghwa Telecom that I’m one of their platinum subscribers (guess all those NT$1,000++ bills paid off) and deserve a fresh mobile phone at a NT$1,500 … Continue reading

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White Flag

Today was weird. Every friend that I met today had warned me against SimpleGuy. Not because he ain’t cool, ’cause Top Climber who knows SimpleGuy personally thinks the world of him. “He’s a cool kid, Raven,” Top Climber commented. “But … Continue reading

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Easygoing is boring

I’d like to believe I’m a pretty easy going person. Most of my friends have no qualms hanging out with me for a longer period of time. I would like to think I can listen well, am open to feedback, … Continue reading

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Dear Looney,

Let me tell you what I can’t tell you in person — you are one of the most incredible man I’ve ever met. Incredible not that I want to hump you. Truth be told, the thought had fleetingly crossed my … Continue reading

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Mien Bao or Ai?

I just had a fun time with Simple Guy today as we first got lost trying to find the Martyr Shrine, then afterwards strolling around the park joking and talking. Check out a few cool photos — beautiful aren’t they?Hey, … Continue reading

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You know what?

I can never truly tell when a guy is interested in me. “How can you be sure?” I’ve asked more than a gazillion times to my unfortunate best guy friend. “Well, usually, they’ll be very nice to you,” he’ll say. … Continue reading

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Wet Season

Is it just me or is March just an auspicious month for attracting men?! After months and months of dating dry season, all of a sudden, I’ve been showered with attention from a handful of guys. The weird thing is, … Continue reading

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