…if the reason you broke up was because you had a third party?
Some people in my life had asked me to ask Trader for some of the gifts I gave him back. at the least, the most expensive ones.
I am talking about the iPad 2, an expensive and beautiful purple necktie that goes with everything. But basically the iPad 2.
Normally I wouldn’t even consider it.
Gifts are gifts and I gave them with the best of intentions. Of course you love to give gifts to your loved ones. Giving gifts is one of the five languages of love.
However, Trader DID cheat. And has been doing so for quite a while behind my back.
While we wee together, it turned out that he was in hot pursuit of another. This was going on for a few months unbeknownst to me who all the while thought he was perfectly nice and loyal. Every time we meet and talk in Skype, he was also doing something similar with another girl.
Anywho, they are now together.
I have so far kept quiet and given it a most amicable breakup.
But again, some people close to me had suggested I get the most expensive gifts back. If he has any shame, I believe he would return them if I asked for it especially since he should have some guilt in how he treated me.
So friends, pls help me with breakup etiquette.
Should I ask for the priciest gifts back? 😉
And what would you do after you found out that the breakup was due to a third party? And the deception ran for months? We have a lot of common friends and he had likewise fooled them into thinking he was a complete angel…
He did kinda play me for a fool.
Thanks a lot for your caring and wise advise! Happy weekend! 🙂