My friend is mourning…
Her ex broke up with her three months ago, citing “I just don’t see you in my future.”
Afterwards, she proceeded to de-friend him from Facebook and he proceeded to de-friend all her mutual acquaintances from his.
This week, she found out through another friend that he’s dating someone else. Bought a new car after not having one for four years that they were together so much that she had to take him home, and is dating a nurse in his hospital (he is a doctor).
Instead of feeling that he’s a complete ass, she is shattered and is just feeling sad all the time.
I forgot the times when I broke up with someone. I remember with Ex #3, I went back home, cried as loud as I could (as in seems as if I was in agony) and then was happy again in two days.
With Ex#2, it took me a whole half a year to breakup with him. But then again, that was because we were kinda seeing each other on the side even though we were unofficial.
Took us a lot of painful evenings before we decided to mutually ignore each other.
So help — how did you deal with your breakup?